This week I am feeling grateful. Last week one of my colleagues, who is also my friend, was taking his daughter on a college visit out of state. They were in a horrible car accident on Wednesday. The driver behind them didn't slow down in a construction zone and plowed into the back of their car, pushing them into the car in front of them. My friend was airlifted out to the hospital. His daughter was banged up, but had no serious injuries, though I'm sure it was pretty terrifying for her.
My friend is married to my teaching partner, who got the call at school from the hospital. She dropped everything and headed for the airport.
He was in the ICU with multiple injuries for a couple of days, and then was released from the hospital and flew home on Saturday, amazingly. He is now recovering at home, and will probably be there for a few weeks. He's been sending cheerful emails, including mentioning that he'd always wondered what it would be like to be airlifted, and now he knows!
My teaching partner sent a photo of the car, which had been towed away. It looked more like a ball of metal than a car.
It's a reminder when terrible things happen - a reminder of how important our friends are to us, and how much we care. It's also a reminder that life can change in an instant.
So I am very grateful that my friends are back with us.
"Life can change in an instant." I'm glad that we don't always realize how precarious life is, or we would be frozen in fear. I'm so glad that things turned out well for your friends.
ReplyDeleteYou're right! It would be a mistake to let ourselves be frozen in fear by what might happen. My grandmother wouldn't let my mother learn how to swim because she was afraid her daughter might drown. How foolish. But on the other hand, a reminder, now and then, of how precious our moments and our friends are, is a good thing. Thanks for your comment!
DeleteYour post is a reminder that none of us is promised tomorrow....life is precious. May their recovery be speedy and may this make us all just a little more appreciative of today.
ReplyDeleteThank you! That's exactly how I have been feeling.
DeleteYour post is a reminder that none of us is promised tomorrow....life is precious. May their recovery be speedy and may this make us all just a little more appreciative of today.
ReplyDeleteWow! I hope if I ever face a hardship like that my friends will comment on how positive I am about the experience.
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