Tuesday, May 6, 2025

Musing on Shoes

Searching through prompts for an idea to write about, I found: "Write memories of your shoes (cheap shoes, expensive shoes, dream shoes, shoes you loved, shoes that embarrassed you, shoes that hurt your feet, etc.) 

When I was a child I had to wear corrective shoes. I think this was because I tended to roll inward on my arches, flattening them out. These shoes were always saddle shoes, always black and white. I was so jealous of other girls who got to wear other kinds of shoes. Here I am in my saddle shoes:


Eventually, after what seemed like a lifetime, a shoe salesman said he didn't think I needed corrective shoes anymore. My mother was okay with that and my shoe wearing expanded.

Regional vocabulary: In Wisconsin we wore tennies. When we moved to Connecticut, they were sneakers. Now I think these shoes are called gym shoes everywhere?

I have indeed worn shoes that hurt my feet - are there any women who have never worn shoes that hurt? Surreptitiously slipping them off while sitting to give my toes a break -  I'm done with that now. 

For awhile I wore shoes with the negative heel - the heel is lower than the toe, so your calf muscles get stretched. I liked then, though they were definitely not stylish. My daughter is sold on the shoes that are completely flat, no arch support, so I got a pair of those. They're fine, though sometimes you do need that arch support. 

If I had to choose a favorite footwear, I would pick sandals! I love my Teva sandals, but I really can't wear them in the winter in Chicago, sadly. It's hiking boots all winter.

I'm really not obsessed with footwear, but it turns out there is quite a lot to say about shoes.






8 comments:

  1. There is a lot to say about shoes. I loved penny loafers and we actually put a penny in them. I remember black patent leather shoes for Sunday with lacy socks. Love the pic with scalloped edges of you and your sister and those lovely hats. Great stroll down memory lane!

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  2. Thanks for sharing that prompt. Now that I have read your piece for inspiration, I have shoe memories walking about in my mind. It will be interesting to see what comes out onto the paper when I write about this. Love my Tevas too!

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    1. I look forward to reading your shoe memories!

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  3. Great prompt and so many memories of shoes, including those black and white saddle shoes my mother thought were great and I despised!

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    1. So I wasn't the only one hating those saddle shoes!

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  4. What a compelling prompt! I can imagine the self-consciousness and longing to wear shoes that other girls did. I, too, wore saddle oxfords - for years. I remember having to polish them. I have learned - after many a lesson, ha - to go with comfortable shoes nowadays, especially after having broken my right foot twice. It's not so pretty anymore and I confess that vanity (alas) makes me choose shoes that strategically cover much of my feet in the warmer months - I can't do "cute" shoes like others anymore.Your post also reminds me of a photo I was give once as a prompt - a pair of old, well-worn boots. So many stories live inside shoes!

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    1. I still have shoes in my closet I know I'll never wear again. Just thinking about them makes my feet hurt. Why are they still there? I don't really know.

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